Quote of the day
"Excessive text messaging to "friends" outside of a committed relationship is a failure to maintain healthy boundaries especially when one's partner objects."
Psychotherapist colleague on 07/20/08
"Excessive text messaging to "friends" outside of a committed relationship is a failure to maintain healthy boundaries especially when one's partner objects."
Psychotherapist colleague on 07/20/08
Reading about the increased incidence of sucides in the military and the huge numbers of soldiers with PTSD has gotten me interested in something which very few people in American society talk about and that is what Dr. Rachel MacNair calls "Perpetration-Induced Traumatic Stress", PITS.
PITS is the anguish and guilt which one human being feels when he/she kills another human being. This has been increasinly labeled as a mental health problem which it surely is, but even more, it is a spiritual problem in my view. All the mental health treatment in the world, and all the medications cannot absolve the guilt induced by the willful, deliberate killing of another human being.
There is a good article that attempts to describe this problem which was published in the Seattle Times 4 years ago on July 21, 2004. Here is a snippet:
Tucked behind a gleaming machine gun, Sgt. Joseph Hall grins at his two companions in the Humvee.
"I want to know if I killed that guy yesterday," Hall says. "I saw blood spurt from his leg, but I want to be sure I killed him."
The vehicle goes silent as the driver, Spc. Joshua Dubois, swerves around asphalt previously uprooted by a blast.
"I'm confused about how I should feel about killing," says Dubois, who has a toddler back home. "The first time I shot someone, it was the most exhilarating thing I'd ever felt."
Dubois turns back to the road. "We talk about killing all the time," he says. "I never used to talk this way. I'm not proud of it, but it's like I can't stop. I'm worried what I will be like when I get home."
The men aren't Special Forces soldiers. They're troops with the Army's 2nd Armored Cavalry Regiment serving their 14th month in Iraq, much of it in daily battles. In 20 minutes, they will come under attack again.
Many soldiers and Army psychiatrists say these constant conversations about death help troops come to grips with the trauma of combat. But mental-health professionals within and outside the military point to the chatter as evidence of preventable anguish.
It is very difficult for us as a nation to face up to the immoral and illegal war which we have perpetrated and are paying for which was based on lies and deceit by our government, let alone for our soldiers who have actually killed other human beings, civilians, women, children, for reasons that are not clear at behest of psychopathic and irresponsible leaders. What does this killing do to a person's soul other than lead to anguish, revulsion, self-recrimination, and too often self destruction in one form or another.
Families of these suffering souls have wanted to be proud of their relative's service and to believe it was for a good cause, but the truth does not match the delusion. The inability of people back home to "understand", let alone accept, the truth, leaves the suffering soldier even more isolated and tormented.
What is the answer to the spiritual suffering? The truth and repentence. Will McCain or Obama lead us there? I doubt it very much unless we as a country are willing to face our demons and admit that what has been done in our name is wrong. Witnessing the suicides and PTSD of our returning soldiers fortunately or unfortunately won't let us ignore or forget the heinous acts they have been asked and compelled to do in our name. The guilt belongs to us all not just to the perpetrators, but they are the more active participants while we just watch, cheer them on, and lie to them telling them they are doing grand, honroable, and glorious things when deep in their souls they know better.
I intend to write more on this topic so I am adding a new category to my blog today called Perpetration induced stress.
Nation & World | Soldiers trained to kill, not to cope | Seattle Times Newspaper.
"The greatest evil on planet Earth is when governments tell their people that they will be safe, free, and happy when they kill other human beings. It goes against our deepest human instinct and unleashes a perversity which wreaks havoc on all that is blessed."
Harry Holleywood
I passed a car this morning that had a yellow ribbon on it which said "Support The Troops", and a decal on it which said, "Thank them for their service protecting our country." And I wondered to myself how do you thank people who are engaged in immoral and illegal activity of waging a pre-emptive war for a corrupt government than has waged war based on lies?
The Nurmeburg trials after World War II developed the principle that "just following orders" does not absolve a person from legal and moral guilt. The fact is that many of our troops are engaged in illegal and immoral activities, activities which they cannot justify to themselves or to others and so when they return home "from duty", from engaging in these activities they are killing themselves in greater and greater numbers.
Our chauvanistic and patriotic jingoism does not help these soldiers at all because they know what they did, and they are not proud, and they cannot say anything when they are being falsely adulated, and continued to be lied to that they have done brave and noble things.
What our soldiers and our country needs more than anything is the truth, because it is the truth that sets people free not lies in spite of what the current administration tells us.
When American soldiers choose suicide over life back in the U.S.A. that should tell us something. They know something we don't know and that is that our spirit is seriously broken and corrupted as a nation.
Truth, honesty, repentence, forgiveness, exoneration, reconciliation are badly needed in our national soul and the prophetic leadership is sadly lacking. Until it emerges our returning troops will continue to suffer and kill themselves.
It is a mistake to view the suicide and psychiatric crises in our returning veterans as mental health problems alone. At the core they are spiritual problems, and Americans as a whole share a spiritual responsibility for the state of our nation's soul. The suicide of our soldiers is only one symptom of serious spiritual dysfunction of our country.
James Jenkins was a Marine who served two rotations in Iraq. He became increasingly agitated and dispairing over the 212 people he states he killed and he told his mother he didn't understand why he was there. It seems that a very promising, bright, hard working, intelligent young man joined the service "for college money" and "to serve his country" only to find out that the "service" involved unspeakable activities that he would rather kill himself for than have to live with. It is a very sad commentary on how the current administration and our country has exploited its youth and their potential for very dishonorable , deceiftul, and destructive policies.
The blood of James Jenkins, the 212 people he killed, and the thousands and millions who have suffered because of this tragic policy falls on George Bush and his ilk and all the idiots in this country who voted for them.
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Edward Ugel has written a light breezy memoir entitled, Money For Nothing: One Man's Journey Through The Dark Side Of Lottery Millions. Ugel describes his career as a lump sum salesman to lottery winners who rather than wait for the annual annuity check decide to sell their win to a financial investment company for a lump sum.
Ugel describes how the lump sum salespeople prey on the weaknesses and character defects of winners to make their sales and collect thousands in commissions. Turns out Ugel has a gambling problem himself and so part of what makes him a successful salesman in this bussiness is that "it takes one to know one."
The thing that makes this book palatable is Ugel's self denigrating stance, his humor, and his humility. He is aware of his problems and he knows that at once they are his greatest assett and his greatest deficit. He makes no bones about it and seems honest in a way that is refreshing and kept me reading to the end.
The book is disjointed and written like a high school term paper, but enjoyable nonetheless and gives the reader an inside glimpse of the underbelly of state lotteries, the people who play them, and the people who prey on the unfortunate winners.
I have argued this point with various people over the last few years that motorcyle helmets and bicycle helmets save lives and traumatic brain injuries. Only 20 states require motorcyle helmets, New York where I live, being one of them. Two years ago, Pennsylvania stupidly rescinded its helmet law and guess what? Right. Head injuries and deaths have gone up dramatically. Here is a snippet from the June 11, 2008 Reuters HealthDay article based on an article which will appear in the August issue of the American Journal of Public Health:
In the two years after Pennsylvania repealed its universal motorcycle helmet law, there was a 32 percent increase in motorcyclist head injury deaths and a 42 percent increase in head injury-related hospitalizations, a University of Pittsburgh study says.
The state's universal helmet law was repealed in 2003. Currently, only riders under age 21 and those with less than two years' experience who haven't taken a safety course are required to wear helmets.
The researchers analyzed data from the state's health and transportation departments for the years 2001-02 and 2004-05 and found helmet use by motorcyclists involved in reported crashes decreased from 82 percent to 58 percent in the two years after the helmet law was repealed.
While the head injury death rate increased by 32 percent, there was no increase in the non-head injury death rate.
Along with the 42 percent increase in head injury-related hospitalizations after the repeal of the helmet law, there was an 87 percent increase in the number of head-injured, hospitalized motorcyclists who required further care at facilities specializing in rehabilitation and long-term care.
Total acute care hospital charges for motorcycle-related head injuries increased 132 percent in the two years after repeal of the law, the study found.
I was talking to a young 16 year old client of mine who is a true libertarian and who advocates for goverment to stay out of people's lives and let people to do as many stupid things as they like such as drink alcohol, drug, have promiscuous sex, ride motorcyles helmet free, etc. His point is that it would be an exercise in social darwinism, that is, the stupid will die young and not reproduce. In a way I think he has a point. It could be that New Yorkers are a little smarter when it comes to public health than Pennsylvanians. Certainly our auto insurance and health insurance companies prosper while Pennsylvanian insurance companies are paying the price of stupidity as well as individuals and their families.
MedlinePlus: Pennsylvania Injuries Rise After Repeal of Helmet Law.
"Jason in a casino is like my two-year-old in the bath. There's a lot of excitement, pleasure, and cooing, and you run a fifty-fifty chance that someone is going to pee on themselves. Still, there is nothing better than bath time or a rare trip to Atlantic City with Jason. Both are worth the risk."
Edward Ugel, Money For Nothing, p. 215
Reuters HealthDay reported on June 11, 2008 on a study in the June 11, 2008 issue of JAMA, the Journal of the American Medical Association that St. John's Wort is no better than placebo in helping children with the symptoms of ADHD.
Here is a snippet from the Reuters article:
St. John's wort isn't effective for treating attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) in children, a new study finds.
Published in the June 11 issue of the Journal of the American Medical Association, the study compared St. John's wort to a placebo in children aged 6 to 17 and found the herb wasn't any more effective than the placebo.
"To my knowledge, this is the first placebo-controlled study of St. John's wort for ADHD. We believed that some parents were using it to treat their children, and there was a potentially plausible biological mechanism, so we went into the study not knowing what we were going to find," said study author Wendy Weber, a research associate professor in the School of Naturopathic Medicine at Bastyr University in Kenmore, Wash.
But, said Weber, "in our study, a pretty standard dose of St. John's wort didn't provide benefit."
She added that most herbal supplements, and especially St. John's wort, have the potential to interact with other medications, which is why it's important to consult your child's doctor before trying anything new. In the case of St. John's wort, said Weber, it increases the metabolism of other drugs.
MedlinePlus: St. John's Wort Doesn't Work for ADHD.
On Friday, July 18, 2008, Amy Goodman, host of Democracy Now, interviewed Jane Mayer, the author of the new book, The Dark Side, about the role that psychologists, and the APA played in torturing prisoners in the so-called "War On Terror".
It seems that America has lost its way under the Bush administration and has engaged in war crimes. Americans have lost their ideals under this administration as they have watched their leaders justify and engage in policies and behaviors that disregard human rights, dignity, and justice.
It seems ironic that a President who engaged in illicit sex in the White House is impeached, while a President who is an international war criminal is ignored. What has happened to the American people?
Amy Goodman's interview is well worth listening to or watching. You can do so by clicking on the link below which will take you to the show on the Democracy Now web site.
Here is part of the interview. It lasts 8:29
There is no "psychology" to the bad economy as McCain, Gramm, and Bush suggest. The ecomomy is really bad. With this kind of leadership, Americans are in deep shit. Video lasts 4:09
"Martyrdom...is the only way in which a man can become famous without ability."
George Bernard Shaw
Here is gaslighting bull shit at its best, when poltical leaders call Americans in a tough economy whinners and needing a "psychological boost". These guys are good. How stupid are the American people? Maybe if they put Prozac in the drinking water like the government used Soma in 1984, they can tranqulize the citizens into accepting their oppressive policies and vote for them.
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Will congress do anything or allow powerful white men in high places to get away with crimes against the country?
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It's a rainy day here in Brockport, NY on Sunday, July 20, 2008 and the local Strand theater has Mama Mia, Hancock, and The Dark Knight. The Dark Knight started at 1:00 PM and Mama Mia started at 1:15 PM. I noticed that The Dark Knight got better reviews in the Rochester Democrat and Chronicle and so I chose that and lasted about 15 minutes. There was enough gratuitous violence in the first 15 minutes and the stupidest plot line I suffered in so short a period in a long time, I walked out thinking that Mama Mia couldn't be any worse.
So, I walked out of theater 3 and into theater 1 and was more satisfied. Mama Mia is corney musical, but the music by Abba and the acting by Merle Streep makes this movie. It is definitely a chic flick, and the women in the audience this afternoon outnumbered men by 2:1 and the men who were there besides me were there with a woman whom I am guessing dragged their reluctant husbands or boyfriends.
The storey line of Mama Mia is that 20 year old Sophie (Amanda Seyfried), the daughter of single mom Donna (Meryl Streep) who runs a bed and breakfast on a romantic Greek Island, finds her mother's diary and finds out that her mother had sex with three men around the time of her conception and she wants her father at her wedding. Unbeknownst to her mother Sophie invites her mother's former 3 lovers to the wedding. The fiasco that follows makes up the musical romantic comedy.
Overall, I enjoyed it, and would rate Mama Mia a 3 on a scale of 5.
The Dark Knight gets a 1 in my book.
"And there are not many myths with which we are as reluctant to trifle as the one involved here, the myth of The People. Not only do we not dare speak publically about The People's stupidity, we do not speak about the decision we have apparently taken as a society not to speak about the subject. Merely to raise the topic feels un-American."
Rick Shenkman, Just How Stupid Are We?, p. 142
Edward Ugel: Money for Nothing: One Man's Journey Through the Dark Side of Lottery Millions
Quick read. Beach book. See review posted on 07/22/08
Ian Mcewan: On Chesil Beach
See review posted on 07/08/08
Bryant Welch: State of Confusion: Political Manipulation and the Assault on the American Mind
See post on 06/19/08
Kerry Cohen: Loose Girl: A Memoir of Promiscuity
See article posted on 06/19/08
Rick Shenkman: Just How Stupid Are We?: Facing the Truth About the American Voter
Interesting and plausible thesis. Light on evidence.
Pete Jordan: Dishwasher: One Man's Quest to Wash Dishes in All Fifty States (P.S.)
See review posted on 05/31/08
Kurt Vonnegut: Armageddon in Retrospect
See review posted 05/18/08
John Grisham: The Appeal
See review posted on 05/11/08
James Howard Kunstler: World Made by Hand: A Novel
i recommend. See brief review posted on 04/20/08
Janis Amatuzio: Forever Ours: Real Stories of Immortality and Living from a Forensic Pathologist
See review posted on 02/18/08
Anne Enright: The Gathering (Man Booker Prize)
See review posted 02/17/08
Richard Russo: Bridge of Sighs
See review posted on 02/12/08
John Grisham: The Innocent Man
I recommend. See review posted on 12/20/07
Donald B. Kraybill: Amish Grace: How Forgiveness Transcended Tragedy
Excellent book. I highly recommend. See review posted on 12/16/07
Alice Sebold: The Almost Moon: A Novel
See review posted 12/09/07
M. J. Hyland: Carry Me Down
See review posted on 12/09/07
Mark Penn: Microtrends: The Small Forces Behind Tomorrow's Big Changes
There will be numerous articles on this blog referencing this book. To find them click on Microtrends under categories.
Riane Eisler: The Chalice and the Blade: Our History, Our Future
See review posted on 09/29/07
Stephen Gaskin: An Outlaw in My Heart: A Political Activist's User's Manual
Great book. I recommend. See review posted 09/21/07
Art Tirrell: The Secret Ever Keeps
See review posted on 09/12/07
Jeanette Winterson: Weight: The Myth of Atlas and Heracles (Myths, The)
See review posted on 08/05/07
Sara Gruen: Water for Elephants: A Novel
A fun read. See review posted on 06/24/07. I recommnd
Christopher Hitchens: God Is Not Great: How Religion Poisons Everything
I recommend this book.
Mary O'Connell: Living with Saints
See reviewed posted on 06/18/07. I recommend this book.
Chris Hedges: American Fascists: The Christian Right and the War On America
Very important book which every American should read. See review posted on 06/10/07
Christine Ann Lawson: Understanding the Borderline Mother: Helping Her Children Transcend the Intense, Unpredictable, and Volatile Relationship
Excellent book. I highly recommend. See post on 06/05/07
John A. Buehrens: A Chosen Faith: An Introduction to Unitarian Universalism
See review posted on 06/04/07. I recommend.
Alan Brennert: Moloka'i
Recommend. See review posted on 06/01/07
Cormac McCarthy: The Road (Oprah's Book Club)
See review posted on 05/06/07