Quote of the day
May 31, 2006
"What this is coming down to is who runs the country. It's us against them. It's the good guys versus the bad guys. It's the God-fearing people against the pagans."
Randall Terry
"What this is coming down to is who runs the country. It's us against them. It's the good guys versus the bad guys. It's the God-fearing people against the pagans."
Randall Terry
"Who can be healthy in a culture in which children watch movies about hookers and serial killers? How can we expect people to be happy when they don't know their neighbors, see their extended families, or have time for naps on Sunday afternoons?"
Mary Pipher
Today, May 29,2006, is the day that in the United States we celebrate memorial day. It is a day to honor the people who have given their lives for our country.
I have very mixed feelings about Memorial Day because I am a moral person and I believe that killing people is wrong and I, with John Lennon, Imagine a world where people would stop killing and maiming one another for religion, for nationality, for money and resources. Like Rodney King said, "Can't we all just get along?"
I have a great, great, great, great, great grandfather, Avery Markham, who served in the War of 1812. My maternal grandfather, James Gerould, served in the Spanish American War in 1898. My father, Donald F. Markham, served in the Second World War, and my son, Michael Markham served in the Army Medical Corps in the late 80s just before the first Persian Gulf War.
I am not a pacifist and yet I have observed our country, the good ole U.S. of A., perpetrate what I consider to be unjust and immoral wars in Viet Nam, in Panema, in Grenada, and now in Iraq. Soldiers in these activities are to be pitied more than honored because they have been used by politicians to further their political ends rather than being legitimate activities necessary for the defense of our country.
People join the military to kill. Maybe they don't understand that at the time they enlist because the recruiters are good at seducing young minds into believing it is about honor, education, service, etc. when it really is about joining a mercenary enterprise met to subjugate, oppress, coerce, and intimidate.
There are those who have seen through the fraud and refused to join, or, as in Viet Nam, actually became conscientious objectors or fled the country to avoid the draft. There have been those, too, who have objected to further serving in Iraq. These are the unsong heroes, the people who have sacrificed their livelihoods, their families, their social standing and status to do the right thing. They have been castigated, criticized, in some cases arrested and imprisoned for their refusal to cooperate in the killing machine.
What would the world be like if every parent took this pledge, "I promise to raise my child to not kill your child?"
So, today, I begin celebrating the "other memorial day" when we honor those people of conscience who refuse to kill in immoral and unjust wars, who question the motives of those who send the nation to war leading to untold death, destruction, and suffering. I want to honor those who seek peace through negotiation, cooperation, collaboration, and nonviolence. There may be times when it becomes necessary to stand up to injustice, abuse, and oppression with armed resistance, but it is hard to imagine such a legitimate use of arms in our modern world unless you live in a third world country or in a country that has something the United States wants like oil.
"Americans need to watch what they say, what they do."
Ari Fleischer
"What religion a man shall have is a historical accident, quite as much as what language he shall speak."
George Santayana
Freeway is a film distributed in 1996 about a teenager, Vanessa Lutz, played by Reese Witherspoon who has a real chip on her shoulder after being raised by a drug addicted prostitute mother, and sex abusing methamphetamine addict step father.
As she flees placement in foster care to find her never seen before paternal grandmother, her car breaks down on the freeway and she gets picked up by a youth counselor who also turns out to be a serial killer. When the serial killer attempts to molest her she fights back and the story goes from there.
Vanessa is wise beyond her years and her spunk and honesty are a real inspiration. This is clearly an adult movie with graphic description of sex and violence, but done in a satirical and yet straight foward bluntly honest way.
There were times that this movie made me laugh and times when it made me cry. I have worked with "oppositional defiant" kids just like Vanessa and I have a great respect for their desire to survive very difficult circumstances while standing up and even striking back at unfair attemtps by adult authority figures to unfairly subjugate and oppress them.
I highly recommend this movie to an adult sophisticated audience. Reese Witherspoon gives a stunning performance.
Link: Freeway (1996).
In Her Shoes is a romantic comedy about two mismatched sisters, Maggie (Cameron Diaz) and Rose (Toni Collette), whose mother it turns out commited suicide when they were children. Their father remarried to an obnoxious step mother and for reasons unknown cut off contact with the girls maternal grandmother, Ella, played by Shirley McClaine.
This movie gets off to a slow start with Maggie engaging in promiscuous, alcoholic behavior, while Rose is a promising, earnest, hard working young attorney. Rose and Maggie have a falling out when Maggie sleeps with Rose's boyfriend from the law firm.
Maggie, however, desparate for a place to stay since Rose threw her out, tracks down the long lost grandmother, Ella, in Florida, and they develop a positive relationship. Eventually, Rose finds the two of them and there are family reunions and a happy ending all around.
This film has a lot of positive features in that it is funny, honest, and not sentimental and maudlin. I enjoyed the character development and the realistic portrayal of family relationships. The performances by the actresses are excellent.
I recommend this film.
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"And God said to the soul, 'I desired you before the world began. I desire you now as you desire me. And where the desires of the two come together, there love is perfected.'"
Mechthilde of Magdeburg
"For the most part, my solutions to human problems have been simple ones - get more rest, do good work, take things a day at a time, and find some people to love. Of course, simple suggestions aren't necessarily easy and they don't always work."
Mary Pipher