But when we become adults, if we become aware enough, we begine to see the choices we have and we can begin to live consciously. Socrates said "An unexamined life is not worth living." and I often wonder how many people are living examined lives?
Personal power comes from examining our psychological legacy and making conscious choices about how we will live our lives. To do this requires help from someone more conscious that we are. Find that person and start living today.